04 January 2026

Happy New Year and into 2026

Christmas went very well considering I was nervous about spending it for 3 nights and 4 days with Darcy's parents, when my stomach was still playing up. I took my own food with me, in case they served something unsuitable. I was glad I did as some of the fare was spicy or very late at night - both things that can send my stomach into orbit. Kay collected me on Christmas Eve, drove us down to deepest Kent and from then on it was one long party with various members of Darcy's siblings dipping in and out of the celebrations over the four days. Christmas morning was spent with most of the family doing a 9am park run followed by a quick dash for the 10.30 church service. Once home, there was a group effort to prepare vegetables to go with a Beef Wellington, followed by a cherry and almond tiramisu. Canapes first and champagne cocktails (from which I sadly had to abstain as I was on a no-alcohol diet for my poorly stomach). We ate lunch at 4.  The evening meal was cheese and biscuits at 10.30pm (far to late for my stomach to process) so I just ate 2 digestive biscuits to show willing. The four days were studded with many games. I am not used to playing games. As an only child, there was never anything like that in my childhood and Greg was never one for family games. Now living alone, there is no opportunity either. So I therefore found it hard to join in, but must say, when we played Traitors, I was elected Traitor and apparently played it well, eliminating most of the Faithfuls to the last two! 

For New Year, my friend in Brighton had invited me and my best friend to spend it with her. Sadly my best friend was unable to come at the last minute, as she had an emergency, so it was just the two of us. My friend lit the fire, as she always does when we celebrate New Year together, and it cosily saw us through to midnight, when we watched the midnight fireworks on Brighton seafront from the safety of her windows.


And so, now we are into the new year. Normally I feel all discombobulated at the beginning of a new year. I compare the passing of a year to climbing a mountain.  In January, we start at the foothills where the vegetation is lush and slowly make the ascent into February, March, April and so on. By December, after a lot of hard effort, we finally get to the snowy peak and regard the world from on high with much merriment. But come New Year's Eve, we fall off the cliff edge, falling falling falling..........until we reach the ground, there at the foothills once more to start the arduous climb into January.

And so I start January with optimism that this will be a better year. A year with lots of tests on my stomach to start with, but hopefully with some improvement. I'm also considering some tooth implant work too. A Happy New Year to you all from the foothills of January!  I'll try to keep up with my regular Sunday waffling all through the year.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Happy New Year! So pleased you had such a lovely, different, Christmas this year and managed to navigate the meals, can’t be easy for you. Good luck with all the tests, hope you see much improvement as the year trundles along, best wishes Blods xx

Librarian said...

Happy New Year to you, Addy!
Your Christmas sounds quite overwhelming - I don't think I would have fared well after the first two days, even though I like being among people. In contrast, your New Year's Eve sounds wonderful, except for that sadly your friend wasn't able to join. I hope whatever emergency she had to deal with could be solved. The photo of the lit fire radiates cosiness and calmness, the comfort of being with a friend where no demands are made on you.

JayCee said...

Happy New Year from me too!
It seems that your son-in-law's family had quite a jolly Christmas, although it was a shame that you couldn't partake of all the deliciousness.
Good luck with the coming year's tests and keeping fingers crossed for a positive solution for you x

ADDY said...

Thank you. Hopefully a new year and a new me.

ADDY said...

I must admit a real fire is very cosy and comforting. A happy New Year to you too.

ADDY said...

Thank you. A Happy New Year to you too. I can't believe it is already 6 months since we were on the IoM.

Lynne said...

Happy new year Addy, I wish you good health.

ADDY said...

Many thanks, Lynne. Happy New Year to you too.