tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post8986281082316340112..comments2024-03-27T04:35:59.203+00:00Comments on Alcoholic Daze: The Good, The Bad and the Ugly - AgainADDYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01018958238940897902noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-30575948967050587282009-04-23T17:21:00.000+01:002009-04-23T17:21:00.000+01:00Oh sweetie. My heart and thoughts are with you and...Oh sweetie. My heart and thoughts are with you and Kay and your mother.aimshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12685252628734838159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-73305481367944139872009-04-23T12:50:00.000+01:002009-04-23T12:50:00.000+01:00Thank you all for your comments. This week has cer...Thank you all for your comments. This week has certainly been full of ups and downs, but he is drinking less again, so I am thankful for small mercies.<br /><br />Doglover - yes, I am still going to Al-anon meetings, so hope that will help. I only stumbled by accident upon the bottle in his pocket the other day, but I often look for confirmation that he is lying to me, when he says he is not drinking!!ADDYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01018958238940897902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-9070716472635254492009-04-22T14:26:00.000+01:002009-04-22T14:26:00.000+01:00Bugger. I come to your blog so hoping for good ne...Bugger. I come to your blog so hoping for good news. That drink no longer plays a part in Greg's life and things are rosy in the Rosiero household. I am sorry. You deserved to have a break. You so deserved to spend time away from a man who can't give a shit about his family, not for want of trying but for want of a quick fix. <br /><br />Sorry also to hear about your niece. How lucky was she! She must be counting her blessings after that but it would be good if the college give her some lee way on the dissertation. I'm sure there will be something they can do in these circumstances.<br /><br />CJ xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-13291553065658125332009-04-22T09:19:00.000+01:002009-04-22T09:19:00.000+01:00My original comment didn't get through :(
Love to...My original comment didn't get through :(<br /><br />Love to you both.nuttycowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10404690160646306404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-55433519940155083822009-04-21T22:54:00.000+01:002009-04-21T22:54:00.000+01:00Oh this is tough for you. I have family experience...Oh this is tough for you. I have family experience of this and some idea of what you're going through. My heart goes out to you and Kay.Reasonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03070633072307321162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-89335434953125872302009-04-21T20:29:00.000+01:002009-04-21T20:29:00.000+01:00I too am overwhelmed with weird thought about my d...I too am overwhelmed with weird thought about my drive down to my folks. But I am ignoring them. but thanks for the solemn reminder. I will not drive so fast!<br /><br />Sorry to hear about greg. It makes my heart go fast when I read this.<br /><br />ANd apologies for not commenting so much, the move and all..and screwing up the blog list didnt help any..Sazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-73044053210484598422009-04-21T09:19:00.000+01:002009-04-21T09:19:00.000+01:00Oh, Greg, Greg!
But that's what alcoholics do, ...Oh, Greg, Greg! <br /><br />But that's what alcoholics do, Rosiero. Why are you still checking on his bottles and on how much he drinks? Will it stop him drinking? Will it make you feel any better? Of course not. Talk with your Al-Anon group. Please. You owe it to yourself and, especially, to Kay.<br /><br />And driving like a granny is better than driving dangerously like your niece!DogLoverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08790183909033947474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-70073276342908189342009-04-20T22:28:00.000+01:002009-04-20T22:28:00.000+01:00Poor you, Rosiero. It all has a horrible ring of i...Poor you, Rosiero. It all has a horrible ring of inevitability about it ....big hug xDD's Diaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05398659302311180518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-2955067903557581022009-04-20T21:04:00.000+01:002009-04-20T21:04:00.000+01:00One step forward, two steps back. I'm keeping my f...One step forward, two steps back. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for Kay, and after that I think you know what you have to do. May you find the courage to do it. You've given him every chance, look after yourself and Kay now. A big hug to both of you.Daphne Wayne-Boughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10581048408996935564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-39874139774178717062009-04-20T15:48:00.000+01:002009-04-20T15:48:00.000+01:00Oh, I am so sorry about all in this post. But I am...Oh, I am so sorry about all in this post. But I am glad to read that you can "see through" Greg's lies. I'm sorry if that sounds bad, but he is lying to himself. Sending you prayers for you, your Mum, Kay and even Greg.grandmamargiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00794143215201941790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-43647827133594415242009-04-20T13:43:00.000+01:002009-04-20T13:43:00.000+01:00I read this with an unfolding feeling of inevitabi...I read this with an unfolding feeling of inevitability. Hopefully Kay will get want she wants, and then will flourish in her new environment, and you will find time for yourself.Nota Benehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00969705852180234416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-67693344830025239322009-04-20T11:08:00.000+01:002009-04-20T11:08:00.000+01:00You sound like such a great compassionate daughter...You sound like such a great compassionate daughter. By what you wrote you have obviously inherited that from your mother. You are a credit to your mother and daughter. I am positive they appreciate everything you do for them.<br /><br />What a terrible predicament. The situation is so precarious because you know any challenge to you husband he is going to see as an excuse to indulge. It takes a very strong person to keep a family together in those circumstances.<br /><br />I really hope the domestic situation improves for you. <br /><br />Take care,<br /><br />NechtanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-30961240922935629672009-04-20T09:59:00.000+01:002009-04-20T09:59:00.000+01:00I'm so sorry for you all.
Your lovely girl must b...I'm so sorry for you all.<br /><br />Your lovely girl must be mentally as strong as an ox to be coping with school pressure and Dad and you must be just about run ragged with it all.<br /><br />Do take care of yourself,<br /><br />GGAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-74353744180831877072009-04-20T09:37:00.000+01:002009-04-20T09:37:00.000+01:00All I can say is I am so sorry for your awful time...All I can say is I am so sorry for your awful time and I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for Kay. Once she's made it you can deal with him and start creating a better life for yourself.Working Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16243697047355131343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-85092325857301579032009-04-20T09:25:00.000+01:002009-04-20T09:25:00.000+01:00Oh dear ... First you must help Kay and then you m...Oh dear ... First you must help Kay and then you must think of yourself and make your plans. I hope you can.<br />Greetings<br />AprilKunterbunthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860374171818800222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-12899797782967654422009-04-20T06:57:00.000+01:002009-04-20T06:57:00.000+01:00Dear Rosiero - I agree with Robert - it's all sham...Dear Rosiero - I agree with Robert - it's all shameful. My thoughts are get Kay through and on to university and then look after yourself and your mum and let Greg go .....! <br /><br />Thinking of you, sending a hug. A xStrawberry Jam Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13695110960213262472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3978906014166411621.post-47709293558022563342009-04-19T22:26:00.000+01:002009-04-19T22:26:00.000+01:00Shame you couldn't have had a proper break. Shame...Shame you couldn't have had a proper break. Shame your mum missed the last day that you had planned to spend with her. Shame Kay didn't get so much revision. Shame Kay had to look after her father instead of vice versa.<br /><br />Hopefully Kay will be moving into student accommodation after the summer.<br /><br />And you will be making some long term plans which exclude Greg...Roberthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08210753167984462321noreply@blogger.com